My desire when I decided to start blogging was to express to the world (and other agents as well) the trials, successes, failures, hardships, findings, and all around life of what it's like to go from never being involved in real estate, to becoming (I hope) a top producing and well respected real estate agent. First off to get this out in the open, real estate is definitely not the glamour position that many think it is or that they make it look like on "Million Dollar Listing", it is a lot of hard work, long hours, and a LOT of disappointment. There are times when you feel like a "power agent" because you're showing a $750,000 house, but there are also times when, for example, you walk into a $30k house that has mold everywhere and it smells like your locker room from middle school when the kids weren't quite sure if they needed deoderent yet (which parents I strongly encourage you to tell your kids that when in doubt they do need it). Basically you have different opportunities presented to you, but when it comes down to it, in the beginning you have to prove yourself and make that money! When you first start you truly have to take what you can get, especially when this is your primary source of income, and in my case by primary, I mean only. Taking a buyer who's looking at a cheap house or looking for a cheap lease isn't belittling yourself, it's gaining experience. Regardless of the price you fill out the same paperwork and handle everything in the same way, the numbers on the paper are just different. I had a woman contact me the other day looking to lease a house for $900 or less, she was the daughter of a current client of mine and they were hoping we could put their house hunt on hold because finding their daughter a lease was more important at the time. Now I could only find six houses in the area in her price range and the one she settled on was $575/month and it paid a 25% commission. That's barely enough to pay my gas to get out to where the house was, but her and her family are good people and deserve to be treated that way. You can't put a price on a client, we aren't here to measure people by how much they make. I'm not a martyr or anything and I completely understand that we have to make money, because as I mentioned, this is my source of income, but let's not look at people like dollar signs. I think a lot of agents need to lose their pride and remember why they are in this business, is it to pad your wallet or to help someone find a place they can live and grow a family.
Now I am not trying to get all sentimental on you guys, but in just my short time in this business there are some agents that need to get over themselves, and they need to do it fast. You didn't become the big bad realtor over night, and you didn't do it on your own. The only reason we all have jobs and make money is because of people, all kinds of people, not just wealthy people looking for a million dollar home. In fact, if there weren't $30,000 homes then million dollar homes wouldn't be special. Anyway, I'll get off my soap box now, just thought that needed to be said.
To me real estate is a wild bronco running through the plains, it's fast, it's wild, it's unpredictable, but with the right training and right care it can be tamed and it can be mastered. I look forward to the challenge of real estate and I look forward to working hard and failing and making mistakes. I look forward to one day selling a million dollar house, but I also look forward to helping that person who is looking for the $900 lease. Why? Because people are still people and if we aren't in this business to help them, then why on earth would they want to help us back?
First lesson in real estate learned:Treat people with kindness and respect because you care about them, not because of what they are going to do for you, and they will take care of you.


